101 Ways to Meet Your Soul Mate  (By minkey (41) on 01/03/2009)

From the book Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus on a Date. The common theme seems to be, get out of your comfort zone and try something new so you have to ask questions. From the intro to the chapter: By combining the four elements of chemistry - different interests, complementary needs, maturity, and resonant values - we achieve the possibility of lasting and passionate love. To find a partner and create a relationship with this kind of potential, we need to look in the right places. We don't have to wait for a chance or accidental meeting. We can begin looking for our soul mate by putting ourselves in places where the odds are in our favor. Let's review all of the different ways and places to find a soul mate and explore a few more. As you read the list, see if you can recognize which of the different elements of chemistry you are sure to find. 5 = Great
 
 
 
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If you love to cook, never miss an opportunity to cook for your friends, let it be known you are a good cook (5)  4.00 (6)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Go out to find a partner on the weeknights, don't wait for the weekend. During the week people are much less likely to be on a date and more interested in getting to know someone (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you always go places wth friends, try going alone. When we are alone we tend to feel are need for support and are more receptive to meeting others (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you hate standing in lines, then your soul mate may be the patient one waiting in a line, and if you can't bear it then walk and down the line pretending you are looking for someone (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you have a favorite restaurant, try a new one occasionally (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you have finished going to school, try continuing your education. Take classes in things you never studied that involve labs, projects or discussions (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you like opera but don't like pop concerts, then try going to a concert with friends (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you like to eat out, then take cooking lessons and learn to cook (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you love the theatre but don't go to movies, then go to a new movie and wait in line and talk to people (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you rarely go to the theatre, try hanging out at the bars and restaurants people visit afterwards (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Join the support team at your church (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Participate in school projects like plays, celebrations, fund raisers, and sporting events (0)  4.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Become friends with the friends of someone you would really like to meet (2)  3.67 (3)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you don't eat out, try dining out more (3)  3.67 (3)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Your grocery store is a great place to meet someone by comparing recipes and asking for advice (5)  3.60 (5)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Attend a friend's party, give a party yourself, go dancing with friends (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Dating services are a great way to meet the right person, they make it easier to get to know a person before meeting (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Go to places where you have a lot of expertise and people feel comfortable coming to you for advice (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Go to school reunions (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you always buy books, try hanging out in the library, where people read but don't buy (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you always park in a garage at work, try parking down the street and walking a distance to work. It is a good exercise and you may meet a few new people (2)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you are a Democrat, visit a gathering or rally of Republicans and let them try to convince you of their point of view (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you don't like the sand and prefer sitting around the pool, try going for long walks on the ocean (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you drink and generally hang out at a bar, try hanging out at a coffee shop where no alcohol is served, your soul mate may not drink (2)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
In a restaurant, a woman should get up several times to walk to the rest room so a man has a chance of seeing her/the man should introduce himself (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Men can meet so many women by going to aerobics classes, women can meet men in the workout room (1)  3.50 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
People are always comfortable talking and meeting in kitchens, hang out where the food is (4)  3.40 (5)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you like to sit by the ocean and not the pool on vacations, sit by the pool each day (2)  3.33 (3)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Be a tourist in your own town, pretend you are from out of town and ask questions at the sites, museums, colleges, tours (3)  3.00 (4)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Bring food to community events (3)  3.00 (4)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Go to places where you like the way you look, where you feel most beautiful or handsome (3)  3.00 (4)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Make eye contact with the person you are interested in, then look away, look back and smile (3)  3.00 (4)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Go to book signings of authors you really like (3)  3.00 (3)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
At a party, a woman should move around so a man has an opportunity to approach her (1)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Call up a friend's date if and when they stop seeing each other (be certain they are done) (2)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Create opportunities to meet apart from the group you are with so you are approachable (1)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Go alone on a river-rafting adventure with a group. When you don't know anyone and you're having an exciting time a new part of you will come out (1)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If a womean always dresses in a sexy manner that attracts many maen, she should try dressing less provacatively to get the attention of more discerning guys (1)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you are a morning person, make the effort to go out and stay up late (1)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you bring a bag lunch to work, try eating out sometimes (1)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you don't like to ski, go skiing with friends and hang out in the common area where people eat or drink, or spend time in hot tubs (1)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you don't read a lot, try hanging out in a bookstore and ask people who their favorite authors are (2)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you don't watch Monday Night Football, start going to local sporting events at al levels and ask questions (1)  3.00 (2)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Baby-sit for friends and stroll with their child trhough the park, or borrow a friend's dog for a walk (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Go on a vacation where people pay one price and share everything, like Club Med (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Go on an adventure tour with others and make new friends (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Help out or learn to faciliitate a Mars/Venus workshop or any other singles program and meet people with similar values (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Help put on church, school, and committee events (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If a woman always wears a lot of makeup or jewelry, try wearing noe, her soul mate may love her the way she is (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you always go to the movies, try hanging out at the video store and ask qestions about movies to people you feel chemistry with (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you are not a morning person, get up earlier and go for a walk or job and meet all the morning people (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you are not drawn to water sports, then go on a vacation where most of the people love water sports (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you are not interested in therapy, take a personal growth workshop and meet people who interested and benefit from it (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you are not interesting in gardening, take a class in gardening, go to a public garden, or buy vegetables in a market wher people who enjoy gardening shop (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you don't go to openings or big events because you don't like crowds, then your soul mate is probably there missing you (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you don't like getting dressed up, pick an event each month where formal dress is required (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you don't like to drive fast, go to a racetrack or amateur racing day. Often one soul mate likes to drive fast, the other slow (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you eat out a lot, spend a lot of time in your local market. Your soul mate may love to make dinners. (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you generally like very formal or fancy entertainment or food, try going with friends to more simple, relaxed establishments (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you have a definite route, try changing it to create the opportunity for change to happen (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you have never been to a garage sale, then start shopping (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you like going to rock and roll concerts, try going to the symphony or the opera, and wait in lines at intermission (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you like to dress up in a formal manner, then try wearing more casual clothes (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you like to work or play inside, then try excersing outside. There is generally a lot of chemistry between inside and outside people (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you prefer health foods, try eating at fast-food restaurants sometimes (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you rarely walk, try walking around your neighborhood at the same time for a week. Then change up the time and continue next week and keep repeating (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
If you've never been on a cruise, or you are not interested in one, go on a cruise and meet someone who loves cruises (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Join a chorus and sing, particularly if you don't like to sing, can't or aren't too serious and it will free your sould (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Join a community cause or particiapte in a service activity (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
Participate in church or school fund-raisers, gatherings, events, celebrations (0)  3.00 (1)   Rate It!Get Rating Widget!
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