Women dating dangerous men

"Hi everyone!  This is my boyfriend Mohammed McDipshit.  He keeps bringin these roadflares in the basement, but he wont tell me what they are for!"

This one always makes me shake my head...

And then those same women complain about their behavior? You knew he was like that when you met him!

This is the kind of thing that makes me want to take a chain and go on a killing spree.....

Or as Camille Paglia states, "In absence of a real war, create one."

Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just glad to see me?

To whom is this 'unexplainable'? Three types of men get laid- rich, handsome, and jerks. Of course we all go through a stage where we date people we shouldn't- that's why it's called 'dating'. . .it makes perfect sense to date someone on the dark side- it's far from 'unexplainable.' And if women don't walk away from abuse, they hold some degree of responsibility.

So-called dangerous men are not men - they are warped little self-serving bullies who never grew up. They are males suffering from the Peter Pan syndrome with a mean streak. In other words; LOSERS.

All I can say is women don't do this please. You deserve so much better. No one should be treated violently, talked down to or abused in anyway. If men do this they are self-serving and lower than low!

Hello everyone...I found this site by actually entering in the search engine dangerous men. Because I have just had to have a DM (dangerous man )arrested and a protective order as well. Let me just say that Yes there is and was a rush for me when I first met my DM. I was only 16, and now am 27. I agree with the comment that women with low self esteem end up with these types of men...and that is because they seek us. They look for any weakness or vulnerable point in a woman and they take advantage of it. And IF they actually get the chance to become a part of that persons life...it's all down hill from there...for the woman anyway. It is a game that at a young age I was willing to play...but I did not realize then the consequences. It's like playing russian roulette. My hope is that someone will hear what I say and decide not to play this game. Because that is all it is. A game. It's not real. I now hope to find when the time is right, a nice, genuine, Average Joe. And would be satisfie... Read more

I think that women with low self esteem thrive on this, it gives them a rush and excitement that is lacking in their lives. Usually these are the guys that are attracted to the women who allow themselves to be treated as objects.

What bothers me most about this whole topic, is the low life feeling a guy can get when a woman seemingly makes the consession to settle down with a good guy. It can make ya feel like now you'll be acceptable or her last resort, but weren't exciting enough earlier in life.

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Are we talking dangerous like Mike Tyson and Hannibal Lector? So assuming we are, I guess the reason we ladies go after men like this is probably because we enjoy a chase. We think we can calm bad boys (and sometimes we can and sometimes we cannot.) I think most of us girls like bad boys because we like the thrill of adventure. It's all psychological. Purely and incoincedental. Women like to chase down strong, tough guys. Because we wonder if there is a warm heart inside.

This is something I will never understand. What in the world is the appeal of someone who breaks the law, drinks, is rude and does dangerous things over someone who is intelligent, cautious, moral, and polite? Women who date dangerous men are putting themselves in harm's way. When I see this happening, it makes me wish I had super-powers all the more, so that I could rescue them from their plight. And, to JKooks, the reason your post was deleted was that the site you linked to contains very strong, harsh language. As for Poison Tongue's, that post also had a strong profanity contained within.

Many girls seem to be attracted to jerks - guys who are verbally and physically abusive, degrade women, cheat on them...the list goes on. Some girls get burnt once and then they become more selective. Others seem attracted to these types of guys and continually get hurt, yet they still cry to their friends for support. They either have to re-think their dating criteria or quit complaining.

Women like men who are a little dangerous and unpredictable. They would rather put themselves at some small risk than be bored with their man. What's sick and should be stopped is women who date and/or marry abusive men. The men need help, but the women should also get help in order to stop themselves from being attracted to violent men. It's a compulsion that some women truly have, and maybe it's the only type of relationship that they know so it seems normal and healthy to them. There are good ways to be a little dangerous though. Having a tattoo and riding a Harley = good dangerous. Waving a machete around or picking fights with people = bad dangerous.

No more unexplainable than men dating dangerous women.. or men dating dangerous men.. or women dating dangerous women. Love and attraction are not about what's right or good or even a good idea. The heart goes where it will and we follow. We take chances. We give people the benefit of the doubt. We make mistakes. We behave like idiots. If we always played it safe life would soon become dull.

This is not unexplainable to me. Women like dangerous men because they are different and because they find them more exciting. I think they're more trouble than they're worth.

Define dangerous. A thrill-seeker? Someone mysterious? A guy who has an occasional beer? No, there's nothing wrong with dating or falling in love with someone who does these things. What SHOULD be defined as a dangerous man is a man who is physically or verbally abusive, not some guy who occasionally neglects to say excuse me. Even though it is bad when a woman does remain with a physically or verbally abusive man, there IS an explanation: often, it's about fear. Abusive men (and women) often threaten their significant others if the subject of separation arises, and after being subjected to that abuse for so long, it takes a while, if ever, for the abused to finally get the strength to leave. I hope that's a fair enough explanation.

One day, CTVFan, when you open the basement door and get out into the world, you will discover that there are far more dangerous men (and women) than those who are rude and drink and break the law. Many such dangerous people are intelligent, cautious, and polite, but they are monsters just the same. Before you make comments on issues regarding adults, perhaps you should become one yourself.