Sexual encounters (wanted or not)

Sometimes great, sometimes a bit odd. UPDATE: Had a decent one the other day. I was in bar and I realized I was dreaming. This puts control of my environment on the table for me. So I walk over to this chick and within a minute we are literally on the bar, yet nobody notices... UPDATE: New material here too. Late night insomnia tv takes over... a couple That's 70s Show re-runs and BAM! Enter Mila Kunis. Not bad, not bad...

Hell yes! At my age you take anything you can get!

To often ignored, dismissed, or unspoken in our Puritanical and silly attitudes towards sex. . . Still, it loses a star because dreaming of sex with the lights on is illegal in Virginia.

Sure. I have these all the time. Women at work, the cashier at the supermarket, the girl in the pro shop, the woman across the corridor in my apartment, it doesn't seem to matter whether I find them attractive in real life or not. And then there was the time I saw "Let it Ride" and dreamed about Jennifer Tilly for days.

I probably do, although I seldom remember any dreams that I have (given that, I would hope they're "wanted" sexual encounters I'm dreaming about-- would hate to think I'm having a dream I'm unable to wake up from where Roseanne or Ann Coulter or Sarah Jessica Parker is having her way with me). I have a friend who is married. So far as I know, he doesn't cheat on his wife, but for years he was obsessed with actress Julia Stiles. He told me once about a dream he had concerning her: "Ed, it was so realistic that I thought it was actually happening, and it wasn't even about sex! We were walking together in NY, holding hands in Washington Square Park, sitting at a cafe and having drinks together, browsing through the bookstore, having dinner together on Mulberry Street...it was wonderful! I never wanted to wake up!" Sadly, inevitably, he awakened from this wonderful dream, jettisoned back from the Land of Nod to the harsh reality of his bed, his wife, her pale face bloated from too many ... Read more

Sure, I've had such dreams.Sometimes they even came true!!!!

Never, not in years anyway. I don't know what the deal is because these don't sound too bad.

I've had dreams of a sexual nature since I was five. They've always been good and a bitch to wake up from, until lately when the woman in my dream hooks up with the guy in Stark's dream. I get these looks all day long now. You know..."The Look".

I'm glad people have great memories when it comes to these kinds of dreams, but I can't say the same because of my own personal experiences with them. Most of the time; they are about my years of sexual abuse as a child or, because I went through a paranoid phase of, "everyone's a perv, oh my God!", I would end up having dreams that I was kidnapped and raped by someone I've never met. Since then, I have gotten less paranoid and haven't had one of these dreams in more than a couple of years, but it's still something that I deal with (in other ways) from time to time. *edited for typos*

It fits I'm getting divorced

no, and wat kinda question iz this???? seriously....

Now this is a pretty good dream.

Wish I could dream That every night!!

Not nearly enough. I've really only had a few, and a couple were celebrity dreams. I can still remember the first one I had when I was about 14. Me and Goldie Hawn among boxes in a storage room. I also had a really weird one where I was flying through the air and came across Tea Leoni laying on a cloud wearing nothing but a pair of boxer shorts.

>.<; woow....

beeing in the middle of two women

I love my sexy dreams...lol

I have this recurring dream that I am in this whorehouse in Portsmouth.  I am in a room with a nice gal and then along comes one of my ex-mothers-in-law.  That always ends badly.

I have a lot of homosexual dreams

every now and then. some are like all right! and then others are whaattttt?

Ah, Dream sex, where would my sex life be without it

not always good haha

Mine it just a harmless fantasy. Kevin James is too hot! LOL

oh yah

I don't remember a lot of dreams, but of those I do, sexual ones are fairly common. Most of them don't involve actual people, but are just sexual in nature. I've had one dream that was disturbing because of the person who was involved in it...so I think I like the fact that I can't remember who my encouters are with in my dreams.

I can only hope an update is in the near furture...

its alright i guess it make sit hard to get up in the morning.

Oh yeah dudes! It's usually Jessica Simpson/Alba. Those are my two favorites. Sometimes I dream of them together, they're so hawt!

It's a nice break from the usual theme of kill or be killed.

I once had a dream about having a romantic encounter with my friends mom, and i woke up when it was starting to get good.

Well it depends what state of mind you are in ether all day or right befor you go to bed.

Actually...at least as far I can remember, these dreams are rare.

Just like Blue Orchid, I had a dream where I got a job at a grocery store and after making a mistake on the first day on the job, I was sexually assaulted by one of the assistant managers. Just yesterday, I had a weird dream that I was in the gay cowboy movie, "Brokeback Mtn." Now that was freaky.

More and more frequent, for better or worse. I could use some more of the nicer ones, though!

3 1/2 months ago I had a really horrible dream where I was a victim of rape. It was horrifying for me to even go to sleep a while after having those.

Very Often...probably due to my somewhat lack of fullfilment in this area. I believe that it is not uncommon to suffer this at some level when you are married and especially if you had a very active sex life during your single years. I read an article recently of a survey conducted with women that outlined that way over 50% of them are not satisfied with their sex lives with their husbands...I imagine it is probably the same if not more with men. Like I have said many times, monogamy is a choice, it is not a natural state for humans. We were built to re-create the species and that probably does not point to being monogamus.

Seriously, I've never had one of these. My dreams rarely encompass normal everyday activities. They are usually symbolic or emotive in nature. Never had a nightmare either, a few that were slightly disturbing, but none that frightened me to the core. I sleep pretty well at night...

I'd love to have a wet dream, but I feel I don't deserve it.

These are always the coolest dreams. I barely remember any of my dreams by the time I reach consciousness. Maybe 1 or 2 a year, but the 1 or 2 sex related dreams I've had (in my life) were going along great. However, each time I woke up before things got really interesting!

Sometimes sexual encounters from my past show up in my dreams, and they can be from last week or from years ago. There was an experience with an old girlfriend in a shower that seems to have made a lasting impression. Probably the combination of sex and water that made it such a strong dream/memory. Sometimes in my dreams I have encounters with people from my everyday life, and the strangest people at that. People that I never really think about sexually or otherwise in my waking hours, and then there they are in my dreams. Those are the ones that get me wondering.

Good dream : Vanessa Williams circa 1984 is in it. Nightmare: you're being succubused ( for those who don't know, in ancient/ medieval times a succubus was a female demon who " rode" guys while they slept) by Sandra Bernhard.