Optimistic

Every night before bed I brush my teeth and gargle with mouthwash, then slip into something comfortable yet sexy. She says she finds my optimism amusing.

Its always nice to be with optimistic people.

It is important if you are taking on a new task to have a partner that doesn't discourage you. But pessimists can be funny. I think I'd prefer a realist. Both optimists and pessimists are wrong half the time.

Who would want to be with someone who's constantly down on themselves and the world? There's nothing more attractive in a woman who's confident about herself and knows what she wants.

When I think about the world, I like to think that it will get better in the end. I don't want someone who is going to tell me otherwhys.

He has to be optimistic.

Must be Positive, I have problems with negative people.

To be able to believe that everything will turn out for the best is very important. Who wants the opposite all the time. I have a store here: Http://www.plunderhere.com/auction/cgi-bin/shop/Sumthing4u

Well as long as they are not in denial about things being an optimist is great.certainly better than being a debbie the downer type personality.

Studies show you live longer if you are optimistic so I guess it's pretty important

Eh, I'm a positive pessimist myself. Said the wise sergeant to numbah: If you expect everything to be f***ed up you can only be pleasently suprised when its not...

It helps.

Negativity brings me down. I would love a happy positive woman who would tell me to shut up when I start whining.

Nothing brightens my day more when I've been struggling with something and someone that I care about makes it feel all better because he's optimistic even if I'm not.

always look for the good ,the bad a miserable is too easty to find in matters

If there is balance, then yes, I can see how this would be important. You don't want somebody who is so optimistic that it becomes annoying, but you also don't want someone who is entirely negative about every little thing. I want someone who is on the optimistic side, who considers the glass to be half full and not half empty...

I can't stnad being with someone who is so pessimistic all the time. They can be real downers.

This is not important to me. I'd rather have someone who can see all the downsides to a subject, to the world, even to themselves. I want someone who is a realist. And when they are realistic they're often pessimistic. An optimist would only bring me even more down.

Optimistic people get ahead easier. The glass is half full all the time for me.

I have had my share of pessimistic girlfriends and let me tell you they can wear you out my friend. I have based my breaking up with someone souly on how much they complain and never ever look on the bright side of anything. Always looking for the flaws and little imperfections to complain about is so tidious and pointless and irritating. Someone who can look on the brightside is so much more pleasent to be around and especially keep a good relationship.

I agree that too optimistic can get annoying fast. It's all about balance. One must be realistic, and yet be confident about him/herself, and be confident in you and your endeavours as well.

Pessimists are generally more entertaining than optimists. Although, given a choice, I guess I'd rather date someone optimistic. It's just that when someone is described as optimistic, I tend to think of them as Pollyanna-ish, always positive and bubbly, which gets annoying fast. At the same time, though, someone who is always negative and complaining is no treat, either. It's a toss-up.