Mysterious

Not that mysterious but alittle.

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I love a mysterious man.

This can be a good or a bad thing. If you want to never know where you stand, and always wondering what kind of person you're with... its awesome. But mystery can get old, and secrets can be bad.

Mystery is fun at first but when you have been with someone for a year and still have no idea what they are about it's not so much fun anymore.

My ex-wives were mysterious, that is for sure. I never could figure out what the hell they wanted.

Any relationship with a person whose attraction for you is all "mystery" will eventually break your heart. But there are worse experiences than heartbreak; it certainly makes for some good dreams.

Mysterious is all fun and games until you find out that they are not the gender you thought they were...

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Mysterious men have their allure, but being too mysterious may have you second guessing if they're cheating behind you.

I usually equate that to being untrustworthy. Not bad for a fling but it will make you crazy in the long run...

My advice: run!

If this means she leaves something to the imagination, or has an intriguing romantic side, great.If it means she's a lying sack of sand, pass.

It can be fun sometimes.

Not in deliberately keeping secrets but a weird woman with some aura is a good thing.

If you're into power games, then a mysterious man is ideal. However, if we're talking love, there should be no secrets.

Do yourself a favor,,,stay away from this trait. Run do not walk away from this trait. Closet types and other secret nuts or crimmials need not apply. Geez Life is mysterious enough - like to think I know my mate...

I confess to being fascinated by mysterious men. However, eventually a time must come when all cards are on the table. If I dated a man, and he was still a mystery to me months after our initial meeting, I 'd probably get suspicious and wonder what he was hiding. A wife and kids maybe?

In my experience, once the mystery is gone and you know the person's every depth, the spark is gone, and it is downhill from there. Note: I'm talking about something alot more subtle and intangible than whether or not you trust the person not to cheat on you.

Hmmm. . .this really depends on the definition of mysterious. Does it mean the I'm a secret agent and I've come to rescue you kind of mysterious, or the People call me Lucifer, but all I really want to do is suck your life-blood kind of mysterious? A little mystery in a relationship can be sexy, but it depends on how long that mystery lasts and why it's there.

I don't think that this a good trait. If they are mysterious, this usually means that they are hiding something. And, if people are hiding something, its usually negative (except of course, for the casual game of Hide & Seek or its various remixes).

I don't think I can date someone who I find to be mysterious, or in other words, freaks me out.

Now that's just creepy.

Could fit under the dangerous category.

Uh, might be fun and intriguing for a while, but in a long-term relationship, mystery might be interpreted as mistrust. Mystery's one thing for dating, but it's another issue for the long term.

Mysterious would be iffy to me. I can understand if someone were reluctant to tell me everything about them on the first date. but if they would not reveal anything about them or kept changing things about them, I would not feel comfortable. It would make me wonder why?

It can be interesting at first, but not if you've gone on many dates and still feel like you don't know the person.

This can be good, up until a certain point where you feel you still don't know the person whom you are meant to be involved with. Its good to have a little bit of intrigue - but not so much that it puts doubts onto the viability of the realtionship - afterall, thats where trust comes in.

What kind of 'mysterious'? Mysterious as in "No I can't give you my real name" or mysterious as in "I don't like telling people about my life"? The second could be annoying and the first kind could be... well, scary really. I don't want someone to share their entire life story on the first date but it would be nice if they shared something.

Mystery generates interest!