Masturbation

Just not at the dinner table, ok kids?

A total stress reliever! Seriously, I see nothing wrong with doing it and I agree wholehaertedly with the old adage that, whoever denies ever doing it, is a liar. Pure and simple. It's totally healthy and sometimes the adequate relief (wink wink) isn't readily available to you. I would say the only times it becomes unhealthy is when: 1. You start to get sore. And trust me, you feel it. If you do it excessivley or if you do it in a way that hurts (totally defeating the purpose of it anyway), then it's time to stop for awhile. You usually feel a better a day or two later, and can resume :) 2. You don't wash up/clean up after doing it. That's gross. I don't think it's unhealthy to do it in a public place as long as it's IN a private area of THAT public place. To me, it gives me that extra "woosh!" because there's that intensely good feeling of possibly getting caught. (But I don't want to ACTUALLY get caught) Finally, when you abstain from it for 5-7 days or more, then when you fin... Read more

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If people do it, its fine as long as they keep it to themselves. One time, I went to a beach and some wierd hippie guy with a huge one was pullin on it. That was gross so I left. A co-worker asked me to take him to that place. He thought it was ok and wanted me to get naked. That is why gay (or almost gay) people need to "anounce" themselves so there will be no mixups. All I wanted to do was go swimming in the freaken lake. I did not want to see a live beat off demo. My day was ruined because of a pud whacker. I told the coworker it would be best for us not to socialize. I know the buddy system is supposed to be safe, but I swim alone now. I'm not into meat gayzing.

I'm gonna go against the grain and say yes to this one.  Excessive masterbation can be unhealthy.  Masterbation itself is not a sin according to my Christian faith but lust is a sin and lust and masterbation pretty much go together.

I don't really get what's bad about it :D

It's a healthy natural part of life and nothing to be ashamed of. It can be done solo or with another person and anyone who claims they have never masturbated, whether alone or with someone, is a liar.

Meh...there are far worse habits I can think of besides this.I mean unless your doing it and avoiding things like,working,washing,communicating with the outside world then Yeah it might what you would call a bad habit.

Doctors say its even good for your health.

I had an interestinbg experience. usually when I maturbbate or have my wife do it she or i incorporate osme sort of anal penetration be it with fruit / finger or dildo but  at he weekend I went to a nudist beach ( i usually visit my local normanl beach in my g string as I havea tanned waxed butt and I lay on the sand and this guy lay down next to me and started masturbating me in front of everyone, males and females.  No one paid any attention to him so I let him finish and came all over my belly. I then went nude into the sea, cleaned off and went home.  Theres something different

to each their own. just don't do it in front of me or in public and I do not care.

I'm not sure how the rating scale works for this one. There are three things that, if practiced, can prevent masterbation from becoming a bad habit, a modicum of restraint, a polite level of discretion, and a good technique.And for the best quote on the subject, the always reliable Woody Allen once said that masterbation is like playing Bridge, if you don't have a good partner you need a good hand.

It's safer than having sex, no risk of getting STDs or a kid. And theres nothing bad about it unless your doing it way too much or in public places.

What the hell are you saving it for?

The only reason it can be a bad habit is for the risk of injury, which is minimal.

I don’t give a rat’s ass if you spank your monkey.  But if you’re going to do it,  you better make it quick before Ceiling Cat(or parents) catch you.

Quite contrary.  Event when I had girls friends, it was something I looked forward to!!  Feels GREAT!

Thats not a bad habit.I do it all time.Your partner if you have one can't be available 24hrs a day to fulfill your needs so you just take care of your own.

Oscargamblesfro's comment on masturbation (BTW, what were you smokin' at the time, dude?): "Wiseguy wrote Maggie Thatcher 5 times- forget about choking the chicken that'll make you want to choke... period... don't know too many people with a thing for old authoritarian British men in drag, but I guess there's a first for everything..."SilverFox: Hey, oscargamblesfro below. I know. I know exactly what you mean. I think I do. Maybe I do, but I'm not absolutely certain, so let me ask you this. WTF are you saying? You thought about Maggie Thatcher five times in a row trying to get yourself into an erotic mood, but you couldn't do the deed because your mental picture morphed into a chicken being choked by a British drag queen, but you're hoping that it will work the next time, which would be a first for you? Got it.As for me, I'm trying to remember if it's a bad habit. It's been soooooo long. But I'm not one to brag, I mean, complain, or something. The blow-up doll I got who looks like Jenn... Read more

Masturbation should be mandatory. For folks in prison, that is. They need their private time, just like the rest of us. It would solve a lot of problems.

Wow....genius...think of all the time and money to be saved here. Do away with jail time, stop smoking programs, rehab...just hold masturbation clinincs.

Just do it on your own time and in private please.

Long distance relationships can suck, so why not? It also gives you something to do if you're bored.

better than nothing

Hey young people, If you use your left hand it'll feel like someone else!Wasn't it Rodney Dangerfield who said, "Poor! We were so poor if I hadn't been a boy, I'd had nothing to play with?"Or, how about the old joke....Little boy gets caught by his mother masterbating. She screams and hollers and tells him it will make him go blind. Little boy says, " Well can I just do it 'til I need glasses?"

True, you might be doing it wrong...here, move over and let Schaddy-baby help you...too bad those masturbation sleeves don't come with French cuffs...I got some old cuff links I'd like to use again.

It's not a bad habit, it's perfectly natural. It's only a bad habit when you're doing it wrong. Heck, it's probably more pleasurable than other things you could possibly do.

To addicting cant stop

Its only a BAD habit if you're doing it wrong.

I always liked the old Redd Foxx joke- "We were so poor when I was a kid in St. Louis, that if I hadn't of been a boy, I wouldn't have had nothin' to play with." When Lenny Bruce was on trial for obscenity, he wanted his lawyer to ask potential jurors whether they masturbated. If they denied it, Bruce wanted them disqualified, as that denial branded them as dishonest liars in his mind.

Wiseguy wrote Maggie Thatcher 5 times- forget about choking the chicken that'll make you want to choke... period... don't know too many people with a thing for old  authoritarian British men in drag, but I guess there's a first for everything...

it't not that fun. hormonally whacked out i enjoy it.

I tried switching hands once in midstream and it was as if my left hand had the palsy or something. Nearly broke the damn thing.

Yes!it is bad ...in the most positive way.

After all these years I thought it was a necessity not a habit. Oh well, I guess I'm addicted then.

When something is "habitual" it is done without thinking.So if someone is wanking themself in public,thats a bad habit-but what folks do in private with their own bodies is fine with me.In fact,some of the grouches we deal with probably need to "take care of business" and lighten up!

One friend's drunken comment: "F**k it. It's too fun to quit."

Bad habit? Only if your doing it wrong...

it's all worthwhile, as long as something comes from it...

This is a natural practice to relieve you from stress by fantasies and you are not harming anybody.

I dont consider this a bad habit unless you are masturbating in public.

She's not naked on a cold day, is she?

How could this possible be a bad habit. If we were not meant to masterbate, our hands would have been attached to our shoulders. It's a good stress reliever, it's a physical and emotional outlet and it releases a good dose of endorphins.

Oh, c'mon! How can it be anything less than 5 of 5!?!? Gotta dig it! I wholeheartedly agree with Silverlock. Look, if "God" (insert favorite omnipotent deity here) hadn't wanted us to do it, He (She?) would certainly not have made it so pleasurable. I prefer to think of it as a little reward that we get for all the nastiness we have to endure as mortals. There are also definite health benefits from masturbation. Who knows, maybe "Heaven" (insert favorite eternal utopia here) is nothing more than everlasting sexual ecstasy... Anyone who says they don't do it, or at least don't enjoy it, seriously needs to seek qualified psychological help to deal with the crippling guilt (IMO, of course). Seriously, it's there for the taking - It's meant to be enjoyed! Fantasy is definitely NOT correlated in reality, that's why it's called "fantasy". Live it up!

Hey what's so bad about this? This is America dudes!

I know a guy who did this.I thought he'd have a bad sex life,but to my surprise,he held his own.lol

There is no reason to feel guilty about masturbating. It's a physical necessity, particularly if you are not having sex. For males it relieves the physical build up of sperm that occurs in the testicles - notice if you don't masturbate you will tend to have dreams that have the same effect because the body naturally requires this release as it continues to produce sperm. It needs to get rid of the old to make room for the new. For females (and also males) it is a very effective reliever of frustration and stress. If thinking from a religious perspective, I personally think that if God didn't want us to do it, it wouldn't feel so good and it wouldn't have the health benefits that it does. I think sometimes (amongst other reasons) religious people feel guilty about masturbating because they feel bad about the thoughts they are having at the time as they conflict with their values. My feeling is that we expect too much from ourselves - we can only be who we are and if we're meant to ... Read more

Difficult to see how. For males, doing it frequently actually reduces the chance of prostrate cancer by a third.

I do not in any way see this as a bad habit. It's better than raping someone, don't ya think? Plus, it's a good stress release and feels sooo doggone good!